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Can You Develop A Kink?

by Jamie Valentino June 9, 2023 One of my ex-boyfriends used to love sucking on my toes. He’d stick his tongue between every crevice with...

Can a monogamous couple happily become nonmonogamous? It's possible but not easy, experts say

by Ian Kerner February 19, 2023 (CNN) — Can a monogamous couple become nonmonogamous? Of course, they can — but do these couples survive...

Self - 6 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Considering an Open Relationship

I had a great time talking to Marie Southard Ospina about non-monogamy for her SELF article, "6 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re...

Hustler Magazine - Sex Requests: The Weird, the Nasty… the Awesome!

I was interviewed by Michael Adams for Hustler Magazine about expressing “bizarre” desires with partners:

CNN Health - What's Your Gender? I Prefer Not to Say

Myself and my esteemed colleague Jesse Kahn were quoted in Allison Hope's piece for CNN Health on thinking and speaking more expansively...

Mic - I Grew Up Associating Queer Sex with Shame, Here’s How I’m Unlearning It

I spoke with Joseph Lamour for his Mic article on where sexual shame comes from and how to exorcise it. “Stigma is a form of social...

Allure - How to Make (and Maintain) Healthy Sexual Boundaries

Once again I find myself in excellent company quoted alongside Dr. Meg-John Barker and Manhattan Alternative colleague Deesha Narichania...

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