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"Dulcinea truly helped the both of us deconstruct binary and constricting beliefs about our relationship and inspired us to reimagine a relationship that is beyond anything we ever imagined was possible. The specific work Dulcinea did with us deepened our love and connection of familyship to each other in a way we couldn’t have accessed without their help. They truly saved our life with their brilliance, and we are now thriving as new versions of ourselves individually and within our relationship."

Anonymous couples therapy client

"Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora is my "go to" for all things kink related as they have been instrumental in my personal and professional growth.  By far, Dulcinea is one of the most gifted professionals I have ever worked with as they are knowledgeable, insightful, intuitive, and compassionate.  As a "once in a generation" talent, Dulcinea empowers their constituents by gracefully guiding them to achieve their goals and dreams.”

"Dr. Dulcinea Alex Pitagora is a kink and mental health dynamo. With a wealth of experience and breadth of knowledge in exploring both the inner and outer worlds kink offers us, Alex is an exceptional choice for those wanting to dive into the wisdom held within. Alex is a practitioner quite unlike anyone I have ever met, anywhere in the world. Alex is not only an exemplary clinician, but they are also the embodiment of integrity, community, liberation, and perversion. This combination is both rare and compassionate and makes Alex incredibly reassuring to be in the presence of, especially when one feels ‘too textured’ for more conventional practitioners. Not one to follow convention, Alex sets the new gold standard by which all sexuality clinicians can measure themselves against, whether from business, activism, or insight perspectives. Alex demonstrates what good business practice looks like in a profession often riddled with snakes. Alex is a Master at holding space for the complexity that dwells within each of us. I highly recommend Alex Pitagora as a clinician, supervisor, colleague and confidante."

"Dr. Pitagora is a leader in the kink/BDSM world, and the go to clinician and supervisor in NYC for all things kink. They do an amazing job of educating, normalizing, and deepening kink practices in the service of healing."

"I am so grateful for the three years I worked in the brilliant Dr. Pitagora's practice under their supervision. Their clinical skills are exceptional, and their passion and dedication to building and supporting community have a real impact. As a practice owner, they raise the bar for ethical practice standards."

“Alex is one of the most talented, thoughtful and community minded therapists I know. They have a wealth of knowledge and expertise that they are eager to share and I have learned so much from them. I wholeheartedly recommend Alex as a therapist, educator or supervisor! "

"Dulcinea is a literal expert in sexuality, alt. relationships, alt. sex and LGBT+ issues. Whether you’re a professional looking to consult on a case or a client looking for a therapist, you will be in knowledgeable and caring hands in your work with them."

"I am grateful that I had the opportunity to have Dulcinea as my sex therapy supervisor. It was immediately apparent to me that in addition to being a psychologist, they were a professor as well, due to their obvious expertise, depth and breadth of knowledge, and ability to explain concepts in multiple ways through different mediums. They expressed openness and understanding to address my challenges, providing real-life solutions that I continue to use in my work.  Most importantly to me—Dulcinea was humble, kind, and relatable."

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